Thursday, February 19, 2009

Don't laugh!

you are pregnant...

Good News: MIL left on tuesday....

Bad News: Granny is still here. She is driving me mad. My patience, which generally is, well very patient, is running thin.

Yesterday was my anniversary, and i was playing some silly party games with my SIL and BIL, and generally laughing my ass off...suddenly granny calls my SIL and tells her to tell me not to laugh so loud, coz yeah am pregnant... fuck off mate! I just told me SIL to close my bedroom door and I continued laughing. I DONOT do what others tell me to do, its time this woman realizes that.

Today as i was helping my SIL (She is staying with me for 10 days, I simply love her. She is just 19!) get ready for a wedding, granny suddenly sees me taking out a new pair od slippers and ask "where are you going?"

I have never ever taken permission for going out, never asked her for permission for anything..does she think tht just because I am pregnant, i will somehow change? Do they feel that I owe them something? This is my pregnancy, this is my baby. They were never understanding when i was suffering from IF and suddenly grrrrrrrr.....

But m really not letting these women spoil it for me. Yesterday was a great day! Everybody I love, called to wish me. Even Nidhi, my best friend, who is in the middle of her honeymoon, called me at midnight to wish me! My friend suhasini sent me a bunch of roses all the way from bangalore...i felt loved :)

PS: I am having trouble eating. No M/s but i just dont want to eat... i need to eat coz am underweight... help?

7 comments:

Nikki said... Best Blogger Tips

Happy Anniversary!! Wish you and Mallik many many years of happiness together!

Forget all these old wives tales! Be happy, laugh, and enjoy each moment!!

margelina said... Best Blogger Tips

Just do the best you can with eating...you're appetite will come back!
Happy Anniversary!

Sue said... Best Blogger Tips

Happy Anniversary!
Try to eat small portions at a time. You'll feel like you are eating all the time but it really helps and try to relax. Don't try to let these women in your house ruin your happiness. I totally understand how it feels because my MIL lives with us. Can you imagine?

Danelle said... Best Blogger Tips

CHhandy,

Awww Happy belatedanniversary!

Love you girl. Be careful with yourself, laughing is contagious! You might find the GIL suddenly doing a 360 and laughing with you!!! Wouldn't that be a right surprise?

A Decade of BFNs said... Best Blogger Tips

happy happy to you lovie!!!

So sorry you can't eat. Hope you find something you like soon.

WiseGuy said... Best Blogger Tips

On your blog for the first time! Oh doesn't it suck when the remote keeps on getting passed into all hands except ours?

Be good and take care....if you do not feel like eating much....just ensure that you do not skip meals. A little nibble now and then won't bite. Enjoy!

aredev said... Best Blogger Tips

Wish you great happy married life ahead & for all lives you may live together happily! :)