Wednesday, April 15, 2009

I don't belong...

anywhere it seems... I certainly don't belong to that group of happily pregnant women, because well, i just don't feel one of them, and of late I have started feeling that I may be intruding in the IF community... But I am still suffering from IF, if that makes sense...well, just face the world and move on I guess...


S said... Best Blogger Tips

I hear you... loud and clear. we understand, trust me. I posted this on shelby's site and I'm gonna cheat and post it here too, because it applies to you too:

"Hey positive patsy, negative nancy here, and I fucking hear ya!!

I remember reading one of those jokes, you know, the IVF veteran barbie, the one that keeps POAS all the way into the third trimester to believe that its really happening. I think I'd be like that too, and I don't think I'd change my blog from an IF blog to a parenting one until I well and truly "graduated" - which in my cynical, negative nancy world means live birth and beyond.

you're so right. its one day at a time. a toss up between treasuring the moments and fearing the loss. but you can do this!"

your niece is really cute! congrats on officially entering the second trimester. :)


Anonymous said... Best Blogger Tips

Hey... Thanks a bunch for your kind words of support. They mean a lot to me.
I know what you mean by stuck in between. When I got PG with my last IVF, it felt odd. I risked hurting the IF community by talking abt PG and I risked the PG community talking abt IF. There is no easy way to walk those waters. I hope there was a better way around this.

A Decade of BFNs said... Best Blogger Tips

you belong right here and you better not go anywhere!!

Xbox4NappyRash said... Best Blogger Tips

It is a funny situation, I have wondered often where we would 'belong' if we became pregnant ourselves.

Just 'be', I guess.